poor choices

For the past year I have been having a struggle with my Daughter about the choices that she has been making in her life. I can still hear my father saying to my mom those wise words , experience is the best teacher and a fool learns by no other. So I am trying to put this theory into practice but it is not easy at all. Last winter was one of the hardest that we had, the weather was awful and my daughters behavior was even worse. Her relationship with that young man was driving me crazy. Then in February everything reach a boiling point. I began to suspect that he was in some kind of trouble. My daughter was very secretive about him. All I could do was pray and wait for the truth to reveal itself. Second weekend of February came and the young man showed up at our door steps. At the time I did not know that he was kicked out of his brothers house or why. I let him stay until he could find some other place to stay. Monday the local police came looking for him, I assumed it was drug related . I went with him so he could talk to them. I said to him to just tell the truth and that this might be a chance for him to get his life straightened out. He was in big trouble but it was not with drugs.